This goes out to ALL aspiring young females who have recently become adults and are entering the big world with a universe of opportunities available, the sad thing is, is that sometimes many of you throw your life away so early before you even have a chance to get it in gear, and the thing that stinks it that it happens to you more than men because women aren’t as likely to disappear from their problems like boys do. Here are 5 strong statements for you to live by.
1. YOU ARE STRONG!
Women are strong, it is much more difficult to be a woman, there are so many things a woman has to deal with everyday, that a man won’t have to deal with once in their whole life. You are our sensitive shoulder to cry on, our bearer of children and about 2,000 other things that are critical to making this world go round, and I don’t know about all other men, but I for one recognize it.
2. YOU ARE FUCKING EQUAL
Remember when they said there would never be a woman president of the United States? Well guess what in just two short years Hillary Clinton is is expected to win the presidential election in a landslide. Why? Because she never let the old phrase “this is a man’s world” get into her head.
3. YOU ARE FUCKING BEAUTIFUL
I don’t care if you are 300 hundred or 100 pounds, black, brown, yellow, white, green, ALL women are beautiful. Never for one second ever let any person or significant other try to tell you otherwise, because if they do, they don’t deserve to be in your presence, if you feel the need to change something about yourself and it will make you happy, by all means do it, but don’t do it because some man, woman, friend or magazine cover told you to.
4. TOO MUCH SWAG IS TOO MUCH
I get it ladies, you want a confident man, that’s not surprising because MEN want a confident woman. Now read that sentence again. MEN want a confident woman. Boys on the other hand want a woman they can treat like shit, cheat on, beat on and essentially make their lives miserable, because the reality is, is that they don’t have anything but swag to show for, and they level out their low self-esteem by preying on girls with low-self esteem, who don’t realize that they don’t deserve it, and who don’t know that respectful love between two people beats out lust any day of the week. Remember, a boy with “mad” swag doesn’t pay the bills, however, a MAN with confidence, respect and ambition will. Never mistake swag for ambition.
5. MAKE THAT PIECE OF SHIT DEADBEAT DAD PAY
Way too often I see single mothers, who let their broke ass deadbeat dads off the hook. Oh sure you were good enough for him when everyday was a party and you had no responsibilities, but when the baby comes, suddenly “they aren’t ready for all that” and drop your ass like third period Calculus class. Babies are never mistakes or accidents, they are blessings, and once that baby is born, the dynamic of the relationship will in fact change. Only a true man can handle that, boys run off, and ladies, if that piece of garbage can’t pay child support, you put his ass in jail, no exceptions, I don’t want to hear that “I don’t need his help speech,” if you love your baby, you will do that, because in the end it will teach them that if you run away from your responsibilities, there will be repercussions. Besides why the hell should they run free while you are left handling the responsibilities of two people alone?
Remember ladies, you are capable of anything, and you deserve love, respect and equality, NEVER settle for anything less. -EE